Time is the variable that is most likely to drive up the cost of your divorce. Having extended negotiations and attending multiple court hearings will increase your legal and court costs. The advantage of creating a prenuptial
or postnuptial agreement is that you have already decided how you will divide properties
and whether one of you will pay spousal maintenance
. If you are entering a divorce without an agreement, there are still ways that you can save time and cost on your divorce:
- Start Prepared: Identifying and valuing your marital properties is a time-consuming part of your divorce. Your divorce attorney can investigate this for you, but you can speed up the process by giving him or her a list of marital properties and documents related to their value. This saves your attorney from having to file requests for this information.
- Settle What You Can Out of Court: You can minimize your appearances in court by negotiating your divorce agreement in advance. You present the court with a complete divorce settlement, which the court can review and approve. When you cannot reach an agreement on your own, the court must decide on the issues for you. This process takes longer because you each may want to present your argument and the court may need time to reach a solution.
- Be Willing to Cooperate During Negotiations: Divorce negotiations are most effective when both sides are reasonable. You must try to separate your feelings towards your spouse from your negotiations. You are past the point of blaming each other for the divorce and must work together to figure out how you will divide your properties and responsibilities. You are ultimately hurting yourself if you approach your negotiations as a chance to punish your spouse.
- Set Your Priorities: You will disagree with your spouse about some issues during your divorce negotiations, but there are other issues that you should be able to quickly agree on. Save your arguments for the issues that are most important to you, such as keeping a certain property or receiving an appropriate share of the parenting time. Do not prolong the negotiations by getting into unnecessary arguments.
Contact a Kane County Divorce Attorney
During divorce negotiations, you must balance being cooperative with protecting your interests. You should not accept unfavorable terms in your divorce agreement because you want to quickly finish the negotiations. A Batavia, Illinois, divorce attorney at Van Larson Law, P.C., can help you create a beneficial divorce agreement in a reasonable amount of time. Schedule a consultation by calling 630-879-9090.